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 <description>&lt;p class=&quot;gilmoreism-quote-info&quot;&gt;In the episode &lt;a href=&quot;/node/118&quot;&gt;“The Breakup, Part 2,”&lt;/a&gt; in reference to &lt;a href=&quot;/node/100&quot;&gt;Sylvia Plath&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;gilmoreism-quote-summary&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;LORELAI: You’re going to a Chilton party?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;RORY: Yes I am.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;LORELAI: Honey, why don’t you just stay home and read &lt;em&gt;The Bell Jar&lt;/em&gt;? Same effect.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;Could Lorelai have picked a more insensitive thing to say to her daughter?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Because Rory just broke up with Dean. Or rather, Dean broke up with Rory. The previous evening was their three-month since they began dating. And it was so romantic. Dean gave Rory a car. Actually, only part of a car, because he wasn&amp;#8217;t done building it yet. Yes, he was making Rory a car. And then he told her he loved her. And all she could muster was, &amp;#8220;I love the car.&amp;#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And Rory didn&amp;#8217;t want to deal with it. All the next day, she filled her time with every meaningless task she could think of, because to have meaning would plunge her into sorrow.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is when Rory announced that she wanted to go to Madeline&amp;#8217;s party.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To get the reference, you have to understand about &lt;em&gt;The Bell Jar&lt;/em&gt;. This was Sylvia Plath&amp;#8217;s only novel, based on part of her own life. It&amp;#8217;s a story about a woman named Esther and her descent into depression.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ironically, Rory&amp;#8217;s situation is more like Sylvia Plath&amp;#8217;s than Esther&amp;#8217;s. When her husband Ted Hughes left her, she entered a deep, deep depression that ended in her suicide, a heart-wrenching story.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And this is analogous to what happens to Rory at Madeline&amp;#8217;s party.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class=&quot;gilmoreism-call-to-action&quot;&gt;Read more about &lt;a href=&quot;/node/100&quot;&gt;Sylvia Plath&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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